We took a much-needed break yesterday and we went to the mall. Just something different to do, not intent on buying anything.
It was 9:30am and I got the usual "why aren't your kids in school?" looks. Of course, no one was brave enough to ask but the looks said it all. As usual, I ignored.
But one lady did approach me and I felt myself growing angry, even before she had said anything. Here we go, I thought.
She said, "Oh, it is so nice to see two friends laugh together like that. They seem to really like each other."
Well, yes, in fact they do like each other. And they are brothers.
She blew me away with what she said next.

"I never would have guessed they were brothers. I have never seen brothers act so nicely with each other."
To me, that is a sad commentary of our society.
The fact of the matter is they do get along, they work together in most subjects and they do not argue. I have never had to break up an argument between the two of them. I usually have to tell them to be quiet at night because they are giggling too loudly.
But they are not joined at the hip and they do not share a brain. They are individuals.
And I wouldn't change a thing.